The Rwanda Biomedical Center, RBC, says that although the majority of women think about committing suicide, research shows that males are more likely than females to die by committing suicide.
The November is a month dedicated to the men’s health care, especially their mental health, after which it appears that there are various causes of problems that can cause mental health problems affecting men, reaching where they may commit suicide.
Some people say that it is a mental problem, because when you have too many problems and you keep them alone, it is when you find that a person is died by grief, died from grief and then commits suicide.
Also, those men who are very sad exist, because sometimes you can see a man who has committed suicide without saying a word.
There are men who say that the presence of women, who try to report their husbands when they have a conflict, can lead to the loss of the home and can lead to extreme grief.
One of them said: “In short, even men should realize that they have rights in the house because now you have something to say, the woman says I will report you and they will lock you up, she says get out of it…and he built it. So, instead of fighting, they left their homes and left, and others killed themselves due to the fact that women were given rights due to equality, they behaved badly and were in charge of the household, and in fact they were helpers, all of them should help each other.”
Dr. Jean Damascene Iyamuremye; The head of the Department of Mental Health at Rwanda Biomedical Center, RBC, insists that these problems that men leave behind are the main cause of mental illness and committing suicide.
“Like a hundred people who think, women are 80 while men are 20. Of the 20% of men who commit suicide, 100% think about it and achieve it. So, that goes with the other things that a man thinks…he keeps it a secret until he achieves it.” Said Dr. Iyamuremye
Because of these reasons, there are those who say that there is a need to relax their hearts and put their grief in public.
One man said, “I don’t know if it’s a scam, but there should be companies. Just like in foreign countries, there are clubs that talk to those who have similar problems so that when a person has a problem, he knows that there is a club on his side, he goes to it and talks with others who share the same problems, then he is free, and his problems are solved. Now in Rwanda, it should be done now that these clubs are done.”
